One of my favorite “weird things” in Brazil is the fact that the “thumbs up” gesture is completely socially acceptable, and used for everything. It is the appropriate response to “Does anyone want a beer?” and “What’s up?” It can also mean “thank you,” “you’re welcome” or “I’m sorry.” Brazilians don’t ever use it sarcastically. Instead, they make the thumbs up look like a normal, everyday gesture.
Whereas, when we use it in America, we look like this.
I’ve tried to explain to my Brazilian friends that in America it’s more of a goofy-dad gesture that goes along with “Good job, kiddo!” but the truth is, I love this. I’ve said before that I feel a bit like a kid here (less so now, with my portuguese improving), and constantly getting thumbs-ups from my friends subconsciously makes me feel reassured, like I’m doing a good job.
And honestly, I’ve now become so adjusted to it that I’ve begun to overuse it myself. I tend to make a lot of gestures when speaking English with Brazilians to help myself be understood (or perhaps because many Brazilians are part Italian), and throw in a thumbs up at the end when I ask “got it?”
And of course, they respond with a thumbs up.
Want to read about more weird things in Brazil? Check out Coisas Estranhas #1 and 2.
So here I am, in Brasil. It’s been 5 days and I still can’t believe it. Ever since my first night, I’ve been running around screaming, moro aqui!!! (I live here!!!) to replace my Carnaval catchphrase of não quero ir embora! (I don’t want to leave!). And it’s only been 5 days, but I’m pretty certain I still never want to leave.
I want to blog about every crazy experience I have here, but I don’t even know where to begin. Life here is everything I could have imagined it to be and more. My paraense friends have adopted me into their group with no question, and as one of them tells me, I’m this close to being fluent in Portuguese. This is, of course, a bold-faced mentira (lie) but I’m definitely getting better each day. I’ve already been to a bar that works like a stock market, an international electronic language festival, taken the subway by myself and met a hedgehog.
But I still don’t have a phone.
Regardless, so far, I can easily say this was the best decision I’ve ever made. I’ll leave you with my exact sentiments via Kaskade:
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